So you’ve met this woman that you can’t stop thinking about. She’s hot, smart, and a demon in the sack (pretty much the complete package.) However, you introduce her to your friends and they don’t seem to see her the way you do. So what if your friends don’t like her? It’s not really that big of a deal right? Actually, your friends have a lot more insight to your love life than you think.
When you choose to be friends with someone it’s usually because you share similar interests, personalities, or they are just fun to be around. You probably spend way more time with your friends than anyone else in your life, and as a result, they get to know you better than anyone. So if your friends aren’t a fan of your new booty call (at least they’re hoping that’s all she is,) it’s probably for good reason.
Your buddies will be the first to notice when you’re not acting like yourself. Maybe this girl manipulates you into being what she wants rather than who you are. If you are sacrificing too much of yourself, or neglecting important things because you’re head over heels for this woman, then your friends are going to see this from the outside, and they are not going to like it. It could just be that her personality clashes with your friends in the group. Maybe she comes off rude, or tries too hard, or maybe she’s just plain boring to be around. It’s easy to overlook these things when she has this sexy spell on you, but when the lust wears off and these things become more prominent, you’ll find yourself bewildered when all of your pals give you the “I told you so” lecture.
However, you shouldn’t just stop seeing a girl simply because your friends don’t like her, because that would be crazy. But, next time the guys have a negative reaction to a lady you bring around, it would probably do some good to really listen to what they have to say. Their opinions of your potential girlfriend are not something to be dismissive of, especially because they see much more clearly than you do since they aren’t the ones getting laid here. Take their opinions to heart, but make your own educated decision, since it’s your life after all. If you choose to keep seeing her then proceed with caution, and make sure you don’t end up alienating your friends over some hot piece of ass.
Trust in the bros when it comes to ho’s!