So you had an amazing evening with this girl and now she tells you she’s bi-sexual. What happens? Do you freak out? Get jealous? Get angry? Get turned on? Bi-sexuality isn’t complicated, fellas. Bi-sexual women find both genders attractive and act on those inclinations. If the girl you just spent the night with confessed this part of herself to you, don’t be weirded out. Some men might begin to feel insecure about themselves and about what they would be able to offer her, but not you! Be the confident gentleman that you are, and deal with this situation the best (and only) way you can!

Show Her Your Soft Side

One reason women enjoy other women is because they aren’t as aggressive as men. Things are a little slower and gentler. Women get off on touch, you already know this. Touch arouses and stimulates them. And here’s something that will blow your mind—it doesn’t have to lead to sex! Intimate time together can be simply caressing her arm while watching a movie, playing with her hair, or tracing her lips with your fingers. Every ‘hang out’ doesn’t have to end up in the sheets. Allow her to feel safe and desired with you just the way she does with her female companions.

Never Assume

Also, don’t assume that just because she’s bi, she’s kinky and into threesomes. Yeah, she might be, and that would be great, but don’t make that assumption. Men are visually stimulated. Porn is a no-brainier for them if they want to get turned on or in the mood. Women are more sensitive, and, as aforementioned, want touch. And even if you think it might be cheesy, genuine compliments and sweet nothings will get you a long way.

Try New Things

Don’t be afraid to ask her what she enjoys about being with women—both emotionally and physically. She might answer, “Boobs, man. I love boobs!” Unfortunately, you can’t satisfy her on that end, but ask her if there’s something she does with ladies that you could try. What do you really have to lose here?

Don’t Try To Compete

Finally, don’t try to be something you’re not or try to put yourself in the shoes of the last chick (or dude) she was with. Be you! There’s obviously something about you she’s interested in. She likes the way things are with you, something about the manly man vibe you give off. Stick with it!

So, she likes both men and women, so what? They’re both fantastic and she craves them for different reasons. Feel privileged that someone that open-minded and accepting is into you. Own it, and reap the benefits later!

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